Do you find youself at a loss for words?

I've had a question from a reader lately on something everyone faces.

"I get tongue-tied a lot .... what do I do?"

Yep, what do we do when we can't figure out what to say?

The first thing to realize is that people are just as self-conscious as you! They are also figuring out what to say. Even if this person isnot attracted to you, social courtesy dictates for them to continueunless they end it explicitly.

I always prepare for this using my news sources ... but I have yet another method ... simply change locations! For example, let's sayyou are sitting down with your date at a coffee shop and you run out of things to say. Just say "Hey let's go walk around the shops".

This will get you a refreshed mind on what to say. On a subconsciouslevel, your mind adapts to new environments and tries to pick outthings right away unlike an old environment even if that was a fewminutes old!

I hope this has helped you.